It's day 3 of 31 Days of Imperfect Homemaking! If you missed either of the first days, you can go back and catch up right here.
Fridays during this challenge will be all about frugal living. It's easy to get careless and skip over things that could be saving your family money, so I've added a few things to this challenge that you can do quickly and easily to help shave down your family's budget.
Ready?
Today's Challenge: Â Make a menu plan.
Menu planning is one of those things I always tell myself I can skip, but I always regret it when I do! We go back and forth to the store to pick up missing ingredients, or we snack on junk because I do the 5 o'clock scramble and everybody's hungry while I try to come up with some type of meal. It really only takes a few minutes to make a menu plan. It doesn't have to be complicated. I like to use Build A Menu‘s service (it's great for special diets too like gluten free and THM!), but you can use a piece of notebook paper and a pen. Look in the fridge and see what you already have. Write down any meals that use those ingredients. Then write down a few more meals that your family likes. Now, get another scrap of paper, and write down all the ingredients for the other meals you just wrote down. And you're done. How hard was that? Why do we skip it and act like it has to be done some fancy way? (Granted, you can save even more money by taking a little more time, but you're not saving any money if you don't do it at all! If you want something a little more involved but still quick and easy to do, I highly recommend checking out Build a Menu.)
Now go get that list made! And while you're at it, save it. Do it again for the next 3 weeks, and you've got a month's worth of meal plans! Make one big menu, and one big shopping list, and you can re-use it month after month!
If you missed the introduction as to what this is all about, you can read the whole thing here.
In a nutshell, this is a series for women who are easily overwhelmed (me!)Â We don't have time to do things perfectly, so we don't do them at all.
During this series I'll be giving you one simple task to complete each day, and we are going to do it together! Anything we do, no matter how imperfectly, will bless our family more than doing nothing at all!
Are you ready for the first challenge?
The first challenge is the hardest. I promise. If you can do this, the rest of the challenges will be a piece of cake.
But it's also the most important.
We are going to get our act together regarding time management.
Part of the reason you're feeling overwhelmed is because you're trying to cram too many things into your day, or you're wasting time (and possibly don't even realize it), or both.
If you're tired of having a messy house, feeling like a failure as a wife and mom, and discouraged that you're not finding time to cook healthy meals, you need to manage your time.
Not too long ago, I got up and looked at the dark circles under my eyes in the mirror and said to myself, “I feel like I'm living paycheck-to-paycheck when it comes to my time.” In other words, I felt stretched too thin and it was stressing me out.
The word “paycheck” struck a chord in the recesses of memory, and around came the word “budget” to the front of my mind. “Budget. Yes…A time budget. I need to tell my time where to go instead of letting time be my master.” A few more seconds and the lightbulb stopped flickering and came on in full force.
“Tell Your Time! That's right!”
You see, Tell Your Time is an eBook that changed my life. At least it did a while back. I had been praying for some solution to the very problem I just described. The very next day this eBook went on sale, and the minute I opened it, I knew it was the answer to my prayer. In a couple short hours, I had been guided clearly into determining my priorities, what things I needed to cut out of my life altogether, and where to fit it all into my day. It changed my life — until my schedule and priorities shifted a little. Then life got out of whack again.
Thankfully, all it took to get back on track was another couple hours, and boom! I had a smoothly running schedule again.
I've put this challenge first because just by completing this, you will reduce a huge amount of your overwhelm right away. You will see that everything you need to do can fit into your day!
I promise the other challenges will not take this long, but you cannot afford to skip this one.
Today's challenge: Purchase Tell Your Time and work your way through it. (Yes, that is a referral link, and no, I am not just trying to make money off this post.) In fact, I feel that this assignment is so important, that I'm going to give you a link that is not an affiliate link — right here. If you can't get your act together and just can't seem to fit everything into your day, do not skip this assignment. It's only $2.99, and worth every single penny. Put the kids to bed early and work your way through the exercises in the book – it won't take you more than a couple hours. In the morning you will feel the stress lifted off your shoulders as you know exactly where you're going and how you're going to get there!
Before you go, let me leave you with this thought: “If not now, when?” If you're not going to get your act together right now, when will you do it? Stop saying “I don't have time” and just do it!
Now go get busy with your challenge!
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I didn't name this blog Imperfect Homemaker for nothing. Before I started blogging, I enjoyed reading other blogs, but often would walk away discouraged. On one blog I would see these wonderful ideas for organizing and decorating, on another I would see all the things I should be doing for my husband and children, on yet another I would see so many healthy changes I needed to make for our family.
I was overwhelmed!
And it paralyzed me. I couldn't do anything because I didn't know where to start.
So I created this blog as a place where I don't pretend to have it all together. If I post a recipe or craft, it's because I found something easy. If I can do it, I know you can too! If I post some spiritual encouragement, it's because the Lord revealed a weakness in my own life that had to be addressed. If I post something about cleaning or organizing, it's because I'm desperately trying to figure out how to keep my own home clean and organized!
A couple years ago, I had a theme on the blog for an entire year called “Anti-Procrastination Year”. I challenged myself to do one thing every day that needed to be done but always got shoved to the bottom of the pile, and I blogged about it. In spite of simultaneously battling chronic fatigue, it was one the most productive years I have ever had!
But it's so easy to fall back into the rut of overwhelm. Of constantly saying “I need to do {fill-in-the-blank}, but I just don't have time right now.”
The truth is, I do have time. I just don't have time to do it the way I'd like. I don't have time to organize every cupboard in my kitchen, so I leave them all a mess. I don't have time to prepare the coolest craft ever for my kids, so I don't do a craft with them at all. You get the idea.
I have a feeling I'm not the only woman out there with these struggles. No — I know I'm not the only one. I've seen your emails and your comments on Facebook. And you are not alone.
So here's what we're going to do. We're going to overcome our overwhelm!
We're going to serve our families, even when we don't have time to do everything exactly like the picture-perfect (unrealistic) ideals in our heads!
I'll be giving you one simple task to complete each day, and we are going to do it together! Anything we do, no matter how imperfectly, will bless our family more than doing nothing at all!
The challenges will be in the following areas:
Be sure to subscribe to email updates so you won't miss them! You can customize your subscription to only receive the areas that interest you. (During this series, the homeschooling category will include anything at all having to do with kids, so be sure to check that box if you need encouragement for your mama heart.)
I'll be adding the link to each day's challenge to this page. If you happen to miss a post, just click the “31 Days of Imperfect Homemaking” button on the sidebar and it will bring you here!
Challenge #1: Time Management 101
Challenge #2: Meal Planning to Save Money
Challenge #3: Deep Cleaning Doesn't Have to Be Hard
Challenge #4: The Most Important Thing of All
Challenge #5: Showing Love to the One You Love
Challenge #6: One Easy Way to Boost Your Health
Challenge #7: Loving the Little People
Challenge #8: Use Your Brain
Challenge #9: Simple Ways to Save Money
Challenge #10: Quick and Easy Decluttering
Challenge #11: Scripture Memorization
Challenge #12: The Way to a Man's Heart
Challenge #13: One Step at a Time
Challenge #14: Who Cares if You're Not Crafty?
Challenge #15: Taking Care of Yourself
Challenge #16: Shop Ahead and Save
Challenge #17: Throw it Away
I cooked up a bunch of pumpkin over the weekend, and I knew I needed to check with some of my favorite healthy living bloggers to see what they had in the way of real food pumpkin recipes. Once again, they did not disappoint!
Here are some of the links they gave me:
 (Crab and Pumpkin Quiche, Stuffed Pumpkin or Acorn Squash, Autumn Stuffed Pumpkin)
 (Roasted Pumpkin and Butternut Squash Soup, Apple Pumpkin Bisque, Autumn Pumpkin Stew)
I'm pretty sure I'm going after those Pumpkies first! Which recipe are you going to try?
(If you missed the apple recipes, you can check those out here.)
My son is enthralled with the beauty of the changing colors of leaves. Every day he asks me if we can collect some leaves and make a craft. The problem is, I'm not exactly the crafty type of mom.
So I set out to find some crafts we could do using the leaves we collected. And I found some GREAT ideas!
Are you easily overwhelmed with all that you need to do?
Between taking care of the house, loving on your husband and kids, and caring for your own health and well-being, you just don't know where to start, so you don't start anywhere. Am I right?
But, you see, you miss out on so much by saying you don't have time, when in reality you could accomplish a lot of if you just stopped staring at it all and got to work! You may not be able to reach your lofty ideals, but getting things done, even imperfectly, is better than doing nothing at all, isn't it?
Each day in October I will be posting a daily challenge to help you OVERCOME YOUR OVERWHELM.
I'll give you a job to do regarding your house, your family, your health, or your spiritual growth, and you will do it. The point is not to spend hours doing these things perfectly, but just to get something done! At the end of the month, you will be amazed and refreshed to see how much you've accomplished!
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